diff --git a/README.md b/README.md
index ea350cc..8fb8cd8 100755
--- a/README.md
+++ b/README.md
@@ -93,6 +93,11 @@ $(function(){
         theme: 'black',
         //string ('tiny', 'small', 'medium', 'large')
         size: 'small',
+        //boolean: show the tooltip immediately on instantiation
+        show_now: false,
+        //string|null: tie the handler to a child of the supplier dom element (good for dynamically added elements)
+        //for example: $('body').jConfirm({'target':'a.confirm'}).on('confirm', function(){ });
+        target: null,
         //string|false ('black', 'white', 'blurred')
         backdrop: false
   }).on('confirm', function(e){
diff --git a/index.html b/index.html
index d549fb9..264c570 100755
--- a/index.html
+++ b/index.html
@@ -190,6 +190,11 @@ <h4>All options and events with defaults:</h4>
             theme: 'black',
             //string ('tiny', 'small', 'medium', 'large')
             size: 'small',
+            //boolean: show the tooltip immediately on instantiation
+            show_now: false,
+            //string|null: tie the handler to a child of the supplier dom element (good for dynamically added elements)
+            //for example: $('body').jConfirm({'target':'a.confirm'}).on('confirm', function(){ });
+            target: null,
             //string: class(es) to add to the tooltip
             'class': ''
         }).on('confirm', function(e){
diff --git a/jConfirm.js b/jConfirm.js
index cbbb6ea..3b1bab3 100755
--- a/jConfirm.js
+++ b/jConfirm.js
@@ -20,7 +20,7 @@
         //if there's nothing being passed
         if( typeof this === 'undefined' || this.length !== 1 )
         {
-            return false;
+            return this;
         }
 
         //get list of options
@@ -47,6 +47,8 @@
             deny_text: options.deny_text,
             show_deny_btn: options.show_deny_btn,
             position: options.position,
+            show_now: options.show_now,
+            target: options.target,
             dataAttr: 'jConfirm',
             //create tooltip html
             createTooltipHTML: function(){
@@ -103,8 +105,8 @@
                 if( typeof existing !== 'undefined' && existing !== null ) {
 
                     //disable handler
-                    existing.dom_wrapped.off('touchstart mousedown', existing.toggleTooltipHandler);
-                    existing.dom_wrapped.off('click', existing.preventDefaultHandler);
+                    existing.dom_wrapped.off('touchstart mousedown', helper.target, existing.toggleTooltipHandler);
+                    existing.dom_wrapped.off('click', helper.target, existing.preventDefaultHandler);
 
                     //attach resize handler to reposition tooltip
                     $(window).off('resize', existing.onResize);
@@ -121,8 +123,8 @@
                 //attach on handler to show tooltip
                 //use touchstart and mousedown just like if you click outside the tooltip to close it
                 //this way it blocks the hide if you click the button a second time to close the tooltip
-                helper.dom_wrapped.on('touchstart mousedown', helper.toggleTooltipHandler);
-                helper.dom_wrapped.on('click', helper.preventDefaultHandler);
+                helper.dom_wrapped.on('touchstart mousedown', helper.target, helper.toggleTooltipHandler);
+                helper.dom_wrapped.on('click', helper.target, helper.preventDefaultHandler);
 
                 //attach to dom for easy access later
                 helper.dom_wrapped.data(helper.dataAttr, helper);
@@ -474,7 +476,15 @@
 
         helper.destroy();
 
-        return helper.initialize();
+        var initialized = helper.initialize();
+
+        //if showing immediately, do it!
+        if( helper.show_now )
+        {
+            helper.show();
+        }
+
+        return initialized;
     };
 
     $.jConfirm = {};
@@ -496,6 +506,8 @@
         theme: 'black',
         size: 'small',
         backdrop: false,
+        show_now: false,
+        target: null,
     }
 
 })(jQuery);
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diff --git a/jConfirm.min.js b/jConfirm.min.js
index 6ab811f..708d9ad 100755
--- a/jConfirm.min.js
+++ b/jConfirm.min.js
@@ -5,7 +5,7 @@
 	https://htmlguy.com
 	MIT Licensed
 */
-(function(a){a.fn.jConfirm=function(b){if(1<this.length)return this.each(function(){a(this).jConfirm(b)}),this;if('undefined'==typeof this||1!==this.length)return!1;b=a.extend({},a.jConfirm.defaults,b,a(this).data()),b.class+=' jc-'+b.theme+'-theme',b.class+=' jc-'+b.size;let c={dom:this,dom_wrapped:a(this),position_debug:b.position_debug,follow_href:b.follow_href,open_new_tab:b.open_new_tab,hide_on_click:b.hide_on_click,question:b.question,theme:b.theme,class:b.class,backdrop:b.backdrop,btns:b.btns,confirm_text:b.confirm_text,deny_text:b.deny_text,show_deny_btn:b.show_deny_btn,position:b.position,dataAttr:'jConfirm',createTooltipHTML:function(){c.btns||(c.btns=[{text:c.confirm_text,class:-1<c.theme.indexOf('bootstrap')?'btn btn-success':'jc-button-highlight',event:'confirm'}],c.show_deny_btn&&c.btns.push({text:c.deny_text,class:-1<c.theme.indexOf('bootstrap')?'btn btn-secondary':'',event:'deny'}));let d=`<div class='jc-tooltip ${c.class}' role='tooltip'>
-                                <div class='jc-arrow'></div>`;return c.question&&0<c.question.length&&(d+='<div class=\'jc-question\'>'+c.question+'</div>'),d+='<div class=\'jc-buttons-wrap\'>',a.each(c.btns,function(f,g){d+=`<div class='jc-button-wrap'>
-                                <a href='#' data-event='${g.event}' class='jc-button ${g.class}'>${g.text}</a>
-                            </div>`}),d+='</div></div>',d},createBackdropHTML:function(){return!!c.backdrop&&`<div class='jc-backdrop jc-${c.backdrop}-backdrop'></div>`},destroy:function(){const d=c.dom_wrapped.data(c.dataAttr);'undefined'!=typeof d&&null!==d&&(d.dom_wrapped.off('touchstart mousedown',d.toggleTooltipHandler),d.dom_wrapped.off('click',d.preventDefaultHandler),a(window).off('resize',d.onResize),d.isVisible()&&d.hide(),d.dom_wrapped.data(d.dataAttr,null))},initialize:function(){return c.dom_wrapped.on('touchstart mousedown',c.toggleTooltipHandler),c.dom_wrapped.on('click',c.preventDefaultHandler),c.dom_wrapped.data(c.dataAttr,c),c.dom},preventDefaultHandler:function(d){return d.preventDefault(),!1},toggleTooltipHandler:function(d){return d.preventDefault(),c.isVisible()?c.hide():c.show(),!1},show:function(d){if(c.isVisible())return!1;null!==a.jConfirm.current&&a.jConfirm.current.hide();const f=a('body');'blurred'===c.backdrop?f.addClass('jc-blurred-body'):c.backdrop&&f.append(c.createBackdropHTML()),f.append(c.createTooltipHTML()),c.tooltip=a('.jc-tooltip'),c.attachTooltipHandlers(),c.positionTooltip(),a(window).on('resize',c.onResize),c.hide_on_click&&a(document).on('touchstart mousedown',c.onClickOutside);const g='jconfirm'+Date.now();c.tooltip.attr('id',g),c.dom.attr('aria-describedby',g),a.jConfirm.current={dom:c.dom,hide:c.hide},('undefined'==typeof d||d)&&c.dom.trigger('jc-show',{tooltip:c.tooltip})},isVisible:function(){return null!==a.jConfirm.current&&c.dom===a.jConfirm.current.dom},hide:function(d){return a(window).off('resize',c.onResize),c.hide_on_click&&a(document).off('touchstart mousedown',c.onClickOutside),c.dom.attr('aria-describedby',null),c.tooltip.remove(),'blurred'===c.backdrop?a('body').removeClass('jc-blurred-body'):c.backdrop&&a('.jc-backdrop').remove(),a.jConfirm.current=null,('undefined'==typeof d||d)&&c.dom.trigger('jc-hide'),c.dom},onResize:function(){c.hide(!1),c.show(!1)},onClickOutside:function(d){const f=a(d.target);f.hasClass('jc-tooltip')||f.parents('.jc-tooltip:first').length||c.hide()},attachTooltipHandlers:function(){c.tooltip.find('.jc-button').on('click',function(d){d.preventDefault();const f=a(this);return c.dom_wrapped.trigger(f.data('event')),c.hide(),'confirm'===f.data('event')&&c.follow_href&&(c.open_new_tab?window.open(c.dom_wrapped.prop('href'),'_blank'):window.location.href=c.dom_wrapped.prop('href')),!1})},positionTooltip:function(){c.positionDebug('-- Start positioning --');let d=c.tooltip.find('.jc-arrow'),[f,g,h,i,j,k]=c.calculateSafePosition(c.position);return('undefined'==typeof j&&(c.positionDebug('Couldn\'t fit preferred position, downsizing and trying again'),c.tooltip.addClass('jc-tight-fit'),[f,k,j,k,j,k]=c.calculateSafePosition(c.position)),'undefined'==typeof j&&'auto'!==c.position&&(c.positionDebug('Couldn\'t fit preferred position'),[f,k,j,k,j,k]=c.calculateSafePosition('auto')),'undefined'==typeof j)?(c.positionDebug('Doesn\'t appear to fit. Displaying centered'),c.tooltip.addClass('jc-centered').css({top:'50%',left:'50%','margin-left':-(h/2),'margin-top':-(i/2)}),d.remove(),void c.positionDebug('-- Done positioning --')):(c.positionDebug({'Setting Position':{Left:j,Top:k}}),c.tooltip.css('left',j),c.tooltip.css('top',k),60>g&&(c.positionDebug('Element is less than '+g+'px. Setting arrow to hug the side tighter'),f+=' jc-arrow-super-hug'),d.addClass('jc-arrow-'+f),c.positionDebug('-- Done positioning --'),c)},calculateSafePosition:function(d){let f=c.tooltip.find('.jc-arrow'),g=c.dom_wrapped.offset(),h=c.dom_wrapped.outerHeight(),i=c.dom_wrapped.outerWidth(),j=parseInt(c.dom_wrapped.css('marginLeft').replace('px','')),k=parseInt(c.dom_wrapped.css('marginTop').replace('px',''));g.left+=j,g.top+=k;let l=c.tooltip.outerWidth(),m=c.tooltip.outerHeight(),n=document.querySelector('body').offsetWidth,o=document.querySelector('body').offsetHeight,p=f.is(':visible')?f.outerHeight():0,q=f.is(':visible')?f.outerWidth():0,r={};r.below=5<o-(m+h+g.top),r.below_half=5<o-i/2-g.top-m/2,r.above=5<g.top-m,r.above_half=5<g.top-i/2-m/2,r.right=5<n-(l+i+g.left),r.right_half=5<n-g.left-i/2-l/2,r.right_full=5<n-g.left-l,r.left=5<g.left-l,r.left_half=5<g.left-i/2-l/2,r.left_full=5<g.left-l,c.positionDebug({'Clicked Element':{Left:g.left,Top:g.top}}),c.positionDebug({'Element Dimensions':{Height:h,Width:i},'Tooltip Dimensions':{Height:m,Width:l},'Window Dimensions':{Height:o,Width:n},'Arrow Dimensions':{Height:p,Width:q}}),c.positionDebug(r);let s,t,u;return('auto'===d||'bottom'===d)&&r.below&&r.left_half&&r.right_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying below, centered'),s='top',t=g.left-l/2+i/2,u=g.top+h+p/2):('auto'===d||'top'===d)&&r.above&&r.left_half&&r.right_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying above, centered'),s='bottom',t=g.left-l/2+i/2,u=g.top-m-p/2):('auto'===d||'left'===d)&&r.left&&r.below_half&&r.above_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying left, centered'),s='right',t=g.left-l-q/2,u=g.top+h/2-m/2):('auto'===d||'right'===d)&&r.right&&r.below_half&&r.above_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying right, centered'),s='left',t=g.left+i+q/2,u=g.top+h/2-m/2):('auto'===d||'bottom'===d)&&r.below&&r.right_full?(c.positionDebug('Displaying below, to the right'),s='top jc-arrow-hug-left',t=g.left,u=g.top+h+p/2):('auto'===d||'bottom'===d)&&r.below&&r.left_full?(c.positionDebug('Displaying below, to the left'),s='top jc-arrow-hug-right',t=g.left+i-l,u=g.top+h+p/2):('auto'===d||'top'===d)&&r.above&&r.right_full?(c.positionDebug('Displaying above, to the right'),s='bottom jc-arrow-hug-left',t=g.left,u=g.top-m-p/2):('auto'==d||'top'==d)&&r.above&&r.left_full&&(c.positionDebug('Displaying above, to the left'),s='bottom jc-arrow-hug-right',t=g.left+i-l,u=g.top-m-p/2),[s,i,l,m,t,u]},positionDebug:function(d){return!!c.position_debug&&('object'==typeof d?console.table(d):console.log(`Position: ${d}`))}};return c.destroy(),c.initialize()},a.jConfirm={},a.jConfirm.current=null,a.jConfirm.defaults={btns:!1,position_debug:!1,question:'Are you sure?',confirm_text:'Yes',deny_text:'No',follow_href:!1,open_new_tab:!1,hide_on_click:!0,position:'auto',class:'',show_deny_btn:!0,theme:'black',size:'small',backdrop:!1}})(jQuery);
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+(function(a){a.fn.jConfirm=function(b){if(1<this.length)return this.each(function(){a(this).jConfirm(b)}),this;if('undefined'==typeof this||1!==this.length)return this;b=a.extend({},a.jConfirm.defaults,b,a(this).data()),b.class+=' jc-'+b.theme+'-theme',b.class+=' jc-'+b.size;let c={dom:this,dom_wrapped:a(this),position_debug:b.position_debug,follow_href:b.follow_href,open_new_tab:b.open_new_tab,hide_on_click:b.hide_on_click,question:b.question,theme:b.theme,class:b.class,backdrop:b.backdrop,btns:b.btns,confirm_text:b.confirm_text,deny_text:b.deny_text,show_deny_btn:b.show_deny_btn,position:b.position,show_now:b.show_now,target:b.target,dataAttr:'jConfirm',createTooltipHTML:function(){c.btns||(c.btns=[{text:c.confirm_text,class:-1<c.theme.indexOf('bootstrap')?'btn btn-success':'jc-button-highlight',event:'confirm'}],c.show_deny_btn&&c.btns.push({text:c.deny_text,class:-1<c.theme.indexOf('bootstrap')?'btn btn-secondary':'',event:'deny'}));let f=`<div class='jc-tooltip ${c.class}' role='tooltip'>
+                                <div class='jc-arrow'></div>`;return c.question&&0<c.question.length&&(f+='<div class=\'jc-question\'>'+c.question+'</div>'),f+='<div class=\'jc-buttons-wrap\'>',a.each(c.btns,function(g,h){f+=`<div class='jc-button-wrap'>
+                                <a href='#' data-event='${h.event}' class='jc-button ${h.class}'>${h.text}</a>
+                            </div>`}),f+='</div></div>',f},createBackdropHTML:function(){return!!c.backdrop&&`<div class='jc-backdrop jc-${c.backdrop}-backdrop'></div>`},destroy:function(){const f=c.dom_wrapped.data(c.dataAttr);'undefined'!=typeof f&&null!==f&&(f.dom_wrapped.off('touchstart mousedown',c.target,f.toggleTooltipHandler),f.dom_wrapped.off('click',c.target,f.preventDefaultHandler),a(window).off('resize',f.onResize),f.isVisible()&&f.hide(),f.dom_wrapped.data(f.dataAttr,null))},initialize:function(){return c.dom_wrapped.on('touchstart mousedown',c.target,c.toggleTooltipHandler),c.dom_wrapped.on('click',c.target,c.preventDefaultHandler),c.dom_wrapped.data(c.dataAttr,c),c.dom},preventDefaultHandler:function(f){return f.preventDefault(),!1},toggleTooltipHandler:function(f){return f.preventDefault(),c.isVisible()?c.hide():c.show(),!1},show:function(f){if(c.isVisible())return!1;null!==a.jConfirm.current&&a.jConfirm.current.hide();const g=a('body');'blurred'===c.backdrop?g.addClass('jc-blurred-body'):c.backdrop&&g.append(c.createBackdropHTML()),g.append(c.createTooltipHTML()),c.tooltip=a('.jc-tooltip'),c.attachTooltipHandlers(),c.positionTooltip(),a(window).on('resize',c.onResize),c.hide_on_click&&a(document).on('touchstart mousedown',c.onClickOutside);const h='jconfirm'+Date.now();c.tooltip.attr('id',h),c.dom.attr('aria-describedby',h),a.jConfirm.current={dom:c.dom,hide:c.hide},('undefined'==typeof f||f)&&c.dom.trigger('jc-show',{tooltip:c.tooltip})},isVisible:function(){return null!==a.jConfirm.current&&c.dom===a.jConfirm.current.dom},hide:function(f){return a(window).off('resize',c.onResize),c.hide_on_click&&a(document).off('touchstart mousedown',c.onClickOutside),c.dom.attr('aria-describedby',null),c.tooltip.remove(),'blurred'===c.backdrop?a('body').removeClass('jc-blurred-body'):c.backdrop&&a('.jc-backdrop').remove(),a.jConfirm.current=null,('undefined'==typeof f||f)&&c.dom.trigger('jc-hide'),c.dom},onResize:function(){c.hide(!1),c.show(!1)},onClickOutside:function(f){const g=a(f.target);g.hasClass('jc-tooltip')||g.parents('.jc-tooltip:first').length||c.hide()},attachTooltipHandlers:function(){c.tooltip.find('.jc-button').on('click',function(f){f.preventDefault();const g=a(this);return c.dom_wrapped.trigger(g.data('event')),c.hide(),'confirm'===g.data('event')&&c.follow_href&&(c.open_new_tab?window.open(c.dom_wrapped.prop('href'),'_blank'):window.location.href=c.dom_wrapped.prop('href')),!1})},positionTooltip:function(){c.positionDebug('-- Start positioning --');let f=c.tooltip.find('.jc-arrow'),[g,h,i,j,k,l]=c.calculateSafePosition(c.position);return('undefined'==typeof k&&(c.positionDebug('Couldn\'t fit preferred position, downsizing and trying again'),c.tooltip.addClass('jc-tight-fit'),[g,l,k,l,k,l]=c.calculateSafePosition(c.position)),'undefined'==typeof k&&'auto'!==c.position&&(c.positionDebug('Couldn\'t fit preferred position'),[g,l,k,l,k,l]=c.calculateSafePosition('auto')),'undefined'==typeof k)?(c.positionDebug('Doesn\'t appear to fit. Displaying centered'),c.tooltip.addClass('jc-centered').css({top:'50%',left:'50%','margin-left':-(i/2),'margin-top':-(j/2)}),f.remove(),void c.positionDebug('-- Done positioning --')):(c.positionDebug({'Setting Position':{Left:k,Top:l}}),c.tooltip.css('left',k),c.tooltip.css('top',l),60>h&&(c.positionDebug('Element is less than '+h+'px. Setting arrow to hug the side tighter'),g+=' jc-arrow-super-hug'),f.addClass('jc-arrow-'+g),c.positionDebug('-- Done positioning --'),c)},calculateSafePosition:function(f){let g=c.tooltip.find('.jc-arrow'),h=c.dom_wrapped.offset(),i=c.dom_wrapped.outerHeight(),j=c.dom_wrapped.outerWidth(),k=parseInt(c.dom_wrapped.css('marginLeft').replace('px','')),l=parseInt(c.dom_wrapped.css('marginTop').replace('px',''));h.left+=k,h.top+=l;let m=c.tooltip.outerWidth(),n=c.tooltip.outerHeight(),o=document.querySelector('body').offsetWidth,p=document.querySelector('body').offsetHeight,q=g.is(':visible')?g.outerHeight():0,r=g.is(':visible')?g.outerWidth():0,s={};s.below=5<p-(n+i+h.top),s.below_half=5<p-j/2-h.top-n/2,s.above=5<h.top-n,s.above_half=5<h.top-j/2-n/2,s.right=5<o-(m+j+h.left),s.right_half=5<o-h.left-j/2-m/2,s.right_full=5<o-h.left-m,s.left=5<h.left-m,s.left_half=5<h.left-j/2-m/2,s.left_full=5<h.left-m,c.positionDebug({'Clicked Element':{Left:h.left,Top:h.top}}),c.positionDebug({'Element Dimensions':{Height:i,Width:j},'Tooltip Dimensions':{Height:n,Width:m},'Window Dimensions':{Height:p,Width:o},'Arrow Dimensions':{Height:q,Width:r}}),c.positionDebug(s);let t,u,v;return('auto'===f||'bottom'===f)&&s.below&&s.left_half&&s.right_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying below, centered'),t='top',u=h.left-m/2+j/2,v=h.top+i+q/2):('auto'===f||'top'===f)&&s.above&&s.left_half&&s.right_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying above, centered'),t='bottom',u=h.left-m/2+j/2,v=h.top-n-q/2):('auto'===f||'left'===f)&&s.left&&s.below_half&&s.above_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying left, centered'),t='right',u=h.left-m-r/2,v=h.top+i/2-n/2):('auto'===f||'right'===f)&&s.right&&s.below_half&&s.above_half?(c.positionDebug('Displaying right, centered'),t='left',u=h.left+j+r/2,v=h.top+i/2-n/2):('auto'===f||'bottom'===f)&&s.below&&s.right_full?(c.positionDebug('Displaying below, to the right'),t='top jc-arrow-hug-left',u=h.left,v=h.top+i+q/2):('auto'===f||'bottom'===f)&&s.below&&s.left_full?(c.positionDebug('Displaying below, to the left'),t='top jc-arrow-hug-right',u=h.left+j-m,v=h.top+i+q/2):('auto'===f||'top'===f)&&s.above&&s.right_full?(c.positionDebug('Displaying above, to the right'),t='bottom jc-arrow-hug-left',u=h.left,v=h.top-n-q/2):('auto'==f||'top'==f)&&s.above&&s.left_full&&(c.positionDebug('Displaying above, to the left'),t='bottom jc-arrow-hug-right',u=h.left+j-m,v=h.top-n-q/2),[t,j,m,n,u,v]},positionDebug:function(f){return!!c.position_debug&&('object'==typeof f?console.table(f):console.log(`Position: ${f}`))}};c.destroy();var d=c.initialize();return c.show_now&&c.show(),d},a.jConfirm={},a.jConfirm.current=null,a.jConfirm.defaults={btns:!1,position_debug:!1,question:'Are you sure?',confirm_text:'Yes',deny_text:'No',follow_href:!1,open_new_tab:!1,hide_on_click:!0,position:'auto',class:'',show_deny_btn:!0,theme:'black',size:'small',backdrop:!1,show_now:!1,target:null}})(jQuery);
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diff --git a/package.json b/package.json
index 46a4316..6d8df9d 100755
--- a/package.json
+++ b/package.json
@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 {
   "name": "jconfirm",
-  "version": "4.2.2",
+  "version": "4.3.0",
   "description": "jQuery confirmation tooltip plugin",
   "repository": {
     "type": "git",