Show error on attempt to treat a nodeset as a single node

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This is a controversial proposed deviation from XPath rules. It may not even be practical to consider.

In XPath, when a nodeset is used as a single node, the first node in the nodeset is silently used. This can hide form design problems that will only show up at the analysis stage.

See this form for example: https://test.getodk.cloud/#/projects/149/forms/field_repeated/draft/preview

Collect shows an error in that case: https://docs.getodk.org/collect-troubleshooting/#multiple-values-from-a-dataset-used-as-a-single-value

The error needs some work but it does at least alert people to the fact that something is wrong.