punycode module is deprecated

[alanpurple]

error code is self-explanatory so i have nothing to add

(node:35028) [DEP0040] DeprecationWarning: The `punycode` module is deprecated. Please use a userland alternative instead.
    at node:punycode:3:9
    at BuiltinModule.compileForInternalLoader (node:internal/bootstrap/realm:399:7)
    at BuiltinModule.compileForPublicLoader (node:internal/bootstrap/realm:338:10)
    at loadBuiltinModule (node:internal/modules/helpers:114:7)
    at Function._load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1100:17)
    at TracingChannel.traceSync (node:diagnostics_channel:315:14)
    at wrapModuleLoad (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:218:24)
    at Module.require (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1340:12)
    at require (node:internal/modules/helpers:141:16)
    at Object.<anonymous> (D:\repo\WindingRoad\WrServer\node_modules\@hokify\agenda\node_modules\tr46\index.js:3:18)

[alanpurple]

as a matter of fact, this isn't agenda's problem, it is "tr46's, which is in dependancy

[alanpurple]

mongodb dependency should be updated, 4 is too behind