Support experimental Netty adaptive allocator

[franz1981]

Description

The new Netty release i.e. https://netty.io/news/2024/05/22/4-1-110-Final.html
allow using the new Netty allocator via -Dio.netty.allocator.type=adaptive which:

• provide lower memory footprint
• doesn't uses thread locals (more virtual thread friendly)
• is faster than the default one (thanks to few changes recently implemented by me)

Implementation ideas

No response

[quarkus-bot]

/cc @cescoffier (netty), @jponge (netty)

[cescoffier]

Thanks for opening this. I wonder if this should become the default or not?

As a first step we can add an option to switch to this strategy.

[geoand]

Yeah, let's at least make it trivial for users to opt into this

[cescoffier]

Working on the bump to Netty 4.1.111. So, we would be able to move this forward.

[franz1981]

eclipse-vertx/vert.x#5168

This is highly related to this issue and #41880 given that the reason why vertx got a perf hit allocating byte[] with SSL is coming from eclipse-vertx/vert.x#5168 (comment)

[franz1981]

@cescoffier see eclipse-vertx/vert.x#5262

[cescoffier]

Waiting for upstream release.