chore: add benchmarks/appsec* for ASM approval [backport 2.10] (#9897)

Backport ae1ab85 from #9896 to 2.10.

The `benchmarks/appsec*` directories should only require ASM approval,
not blocked on core.

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Co-authored-by: erikayasuda <[email protected]>

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@@ -62,6 +62,7 @@ tests/internal/test_module.py       @DataDog/debugger-python @DataDog/apm-core-p
 tests/internal/symbol_db/           @DataDog/debugger-python
 
 # ASM
+benchmarks/appsec*                  @DataDog/asm-python
 ddtrace/appsec/                     @DataDog/asm-python
 ddtrace/settings/asm.py             @DataDog/asm-python
 ddtrace/contrib/subprocess/         @DataDog/asm-python