Fix typos

[TheJavaGuy]

Fixes various typos (mostly of can not -> cannot kind). Rationale is given in https://writingexplained.org/cannot-or-can-not-difference

[pjfanning]

Changing the text of an exception can break user's code. In the real world, users do things like catch exceptions and try to parse the text. I'm not saying this is a good thing to do but it happens.
can not and cannot are both valid in English - so I say it is not worth the risk of adding this change.

[cowtowncoder]

100% agree with @pjfanning: I'm fine with changes to Javadocs, but let's not change exception messages for 2.x.

So would it be possible to change this PR to only have Javadoc changes.
Additionally if it feels useful -- I am non-native english speaker so do not have a gut feelings -- could have another PR against master (Jackson 3.0) for Exception message changes: with 3.0 there are API changes anyway and we could make the change.