[BugFix] Fix Java UDAF OOM in spill or sorted streaming agg (backport #48618)

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Why I'm doing:

In past implementations, Function States would not be released.

For sorted streaming agg or spill aggregates, they will not be released even if destroy is called.

What I'm doing:

This PR adds a remove state interface to Function States.

After calling destroy, it will call function states-> remove.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
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• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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This is an automatic backport of pull request #48618 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com). ## Why I'm doing:

In past implementations, Function States would not be released.

For sorted streaming agg or spill aggregates, they will not be released even if destroy is called.

What I'm doing:

This PR adds a remove state interface to Function States.

After calling destroy, it will call function states-> remove.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   be/src/exec/aggregator.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exprs/agg/java_udaf_function.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exprs/agg/java_udaf_function.h
	modified:   be/src/exprs/agg/java_window_function.cpp
	modified:   be/src/exprs/function_context.h
	modified:   be/src/udf/java/java_udf.cpp
	modified:   be/src/udf/java/java_udf.h
	modified:   java-extensions/udf-extensions/src/main/java/com/starrocks/udf/FunctionStates.java
	modified:   java-extensions/udf-extensions/src/main/java/com/starrocks/udf/UDFHelper.java
	new file:   java-extensions/udf-extensions/src/test/java/com/starrocks/udf/FunctionStatesTest.java
	new file:   test/sql/test_udf/R/test_jvm_udf
	new file:   test/sql/test_udf/T/test_jvm_udf

Unmerged paths:
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	both modified:   be/src/exprs/function_context.cpp

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@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr