[Enhancement] Refactor CachingMvPlanContextBuilder to support timeout in loading mv's plan cache (backport #52424)

[mergify]

Why I'm doing:

CachingMvPlanContextBuilder#getPlanContext may block user's query's process or even stuck/hang.

What I'm doing:

• Move getOrLoadPlanContext by using a backgroud thread pool(Config.mv_plan_cache_thread_pool_size, default 3 thread)
• Remove expireAfterAccess's refresh of the mv plan context cache since mv's plan should not be changed
• Load MV Plan Context async automatically when mv is on load to avoid optimization time in cold run.
• Add timeout for loading mv's plan cache to avoid hanging user's query.
• Fix a bug in testing: CachedPartitionTraits should take care mv either beside the base table.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
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This is an automatic backport of pull request #52424 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com). ## Why I'm doing: `CachingMvPlanContextBuilder#getPlanContext` may block user's query's process or even stuck/hang.

What I'm doing:

• Move getOrLoadPlanContext by using a backgroud thread pool(Config.mv_plan_cache_thread_pool_size, default 3 thread)
• Remove expireAfterAccess's refresh of the mv plan context cache since mv's plan should not be changed
• Load MV Plan Context async automatically when mv is on load to avoid optimization time in cold run.
• Add timeout for loading mv's plan cache to avoid hanging user's query.
• Fix a bug in testing: CachedPartitionTraits should take care mv either beside the base table.

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

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Changes to be committed:
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/common/Config.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/connector/ConnectorPartitionTraits.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/connector/partitiontraits/CachedPartitionTraits.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/CachingMvPlanContextBuilder.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/rule/transformation/materialization/BestMvSelector.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/rule/transformation/materialization/MvUtils.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/test/java/com/starrocks/scheduler/PartitionBasedMvRefreshProcessorOlapPart2Test.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/test/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/rule/transformation/materialization/MvRewritePreprocessorTest.java
	modified:   fe/fe-core/src/test/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/rule/transformation/materialization/MvRewriteTest.java
	modified:   test/sql/test_materialized_view/R/test_mv_reasoning

Unmerged paths:
  (use "git add/rm <file>..." as appropriate to mark resolution)
	both modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/alter/AlterMVJobExecutor.java
	both modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/catalog/MaterializedView.java
	both modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/MvRewritePreprocessor.java
	deleted by us:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/function/MetaFunctions.java
	both modified:   fe/fe-core/src/main/java/com/starrocks/sql/optimizer/rule/transformation/materialization/rule/SingleTableRewriteBaseRule.java

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[mergify]

@mergify[bot]: Backport conflict, please reslove the conflict and resubmit the pr

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