[BugFix] fix compute node replay heartbeat response status inconsistency

[kevincai]

• fix inconstent retry times
• properly handle mismatching of retry times between the heartbeat response generated and the heartbeat response replayed.

Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

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Quality Gate passed

Issues
3 New issues
0 Accepted issues

Measures
0 Security Hotspots
0.0% Coverage on New Code
0.0% Duplication on New Code

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[Java-Extensions Incremental Coverage Report]

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[FE Incremental Coverage Report]

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file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
🔵	com/starrocks/system/ComputeNode.java	9	9	100.00%	[]
🔵	com/starrocks/system/Backend.java	1	1	100.00%	[]

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[BE Incremental Coverage Report]

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