[BugFix] fix array_map crash (backport #55383)

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Why I'm doing:

for BinaryColumnBase::replicate, it can allocate a huge vector, which size exceed uint32 max, so need to call upgrade_if_overflow to avoid check faild:
F20250123 12:27:53.005990 140324118660672 binary_column.cpp:36] Check failed: _bytes.size() == _offsets.back() (20624569792 vs. 3444700608)

W20250124 11:08:55.984929 140035107186240 stack_util.cpp:347] 2025-01-24 11:08:55.984899, query_id=8b99278a-da00-11ef-9066-00163e03f27c, fragment_instance_id=8b99278a-da00-11ef-9066-00163e03f284 throws exception: std::bad_alloc, trace:
     @          0x916689e  __wrap___cxa_throw
    @          0x5a4ab5e  starrocks::AllocatorFactory<starrocks::Allocator, starrocks::MemHookAllocator>::checked_alloc(unsigned long) [clone .part.0]
    @          0x5a4b449  starrocks::AllocatorFactory<starrocks::Allocator, starrocks::MemHookAllocator>::checked_alloc(unsigned long)
    @          0x5817894  std::vector<unsigned char, starrocks::raw::RawAllocator<unsigned char, 16ul, starrocks::ColumnAllocator<unsigned char> > >::_M_default_append(unsigned long)
    @          0x584bfce  starrocks::BinaryColumnBase<unsigned int>::replicate(std::vector<unsigned int, starrocks::ColumnAllocator<unsigned int> > const&)
    @          0x5867077  starrocks::NullableColumn::replicate(std::vector<unsigned int, starrocks::ColumnAllocator<unsigned int> > const&)
    @          0x83502ae  starrocks::StatusOr<std::shared_ptr<starrocks::Column> > starrocks::ArrayMapExpr::evaluate_lambda_expr<false, true>(starrocks::ExprContext*, starrocks::Chunk*, std::vector<std::shared_ptr<starrocks::Column>, std::allocator<std::shared_ptr<starrocks::Column      ^A
    @          0x8349863  starrocks::ArrayMapExpr::evaluate_checked(starrocks::ExprContext*, starrocks::Chunk*)
    @          0x5a50443  starrocks::ExprContext::evaluate(starrocks::Expr*, starrocks::Chunk*, unsigned char*)
    @          0x833ff14  starrocks::VectorizedFunctionCallExpr::evaluate_checked(starrocks::ExprContext*, starrocks::Chunk*)
    @          0x5a50443  starrocks::ExprContext::evaluate(starrocks::Expr*, starrocks::Chunk*, unsigned char*)
    @          0x5a50952  starrocks::ExprContext::evaluate(starrocks::Chunk*, unsigned char*)
    @          0x7f33a85  starrocks::pipeline::ProjectOperator::push_chunk(starrocks::RuntimeState*, std::shared_ptr<starrocks::Chunk> const&)
    @          0x579b088  starrocks::pipeline::PipelineDriver::process(starrocks::RuntimeState*, int)
    @          0x8cf53f3  starrocks::pipeline::GlobalDriverExecutor::_worker_thread()
    @          0x91a55a2  starrocks::ThreadPool::dispatch_thread()
    @          0x919d4c9  starrocks::Thread::supervise_thread(void*)
    @     0x7f5cf933bac3  (/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6+0x94ac2)
    @     0x7f5cf93cd850  (/usr/lib/x86_64-linux-gnu/libc.so.6+0x12684f)

What I'm doing:

Fixes #issue

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr