Bump mongoose from 7.3.4 to 8.8.3 in /server

Bumps [mongoose](https://github.com/Automattic/mongoose) from 7.3.4 to 8.8.3.
- [Release notes](https://github.com/Automattic/mongoose/releases)
- [Changelog](https://github.com/Automattic/mongoose/blob/master/CHANGELOG.md)
- [Commits](Automattic/mongoose@7.3.4...8.8.3)

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updated-dependencies:
- dependency-name: mongoose
  dependency-type: direct:production
  update-type: version-update:semver-major
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