deduplicate variadic buffers in MutableArrayData::extend for ByteView arrays

[onursatici]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #.

Rationale for this change

MutableArrayData adds all variadic buffers from input arrays together, potentially duplicating the same buffers in the output array.

What changes are included in this PR?

extend now checks if the same buffer is added from some other input array and changes the views to be appended to point to the new deduplicated buffer indices

Are there any user-facing changes?

[onursatici]

@tustvold happy to add tests if this approach is more inline with what you had in mind in #6779

[alamb]

I wonder if building a hashmap / vec would be overly expensive (though we would need to run benchmarks to be sure)

cc @XiangpengHao

[onursatici]

happy to run benchmarks, any particular in mind or should I create one with criterion specific to this?

[alamb]

I think the ones in cast are probably a good place to start

[onursatici]

@alamb @tustvold I did add a string view case for the interleave benchmark and ran on main, this PR (interleave-deduplicated), and #6779 (interleave-specific-impl)

❯ critcmp interleave-main interleave-deduplicated interleave-specific-impl
group                                                                                interleave-deduplicated                interleave-main                        interleave-specific-impl
-----                                                                                -----------------------                ---------------                        ------------------------
interleave string_view(0.5, 50, true) 100 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]              2.33      2.3±0.02µs        ? ?/sec    1.82  1767.6±25.30ns        ? ?/sec    1.00    968.7±4.97ns        ? ?/sec
interleave string_view(0.5, 50, true) 1024 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000, 0..1000]    1.80     13.9±0.17µs        ? ?/sec    1.35     10.4±0.11µs        ? ?/sec    1.00      7.7±0.11µs        ? ?/sec
interleave string_view(0.5, 50, true) 1024 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]             1.80     13.3±0.13µs        ? ?/sec    1.39     10.3±0.10µs        ? ?/sec    1.00      7.4±0.09µs        ? ?/sec
interleave string_view(0.5, 50, true) 400 [0..100, 100..230, 450..1000]              1.93      5.8±0.05µs        ? ?/sec    1.49      4.5±0.05µs        ? ?/sec    1.00      3.0±0.02µs        ? ?/sec

I believe the penalty introduced by this PR would be mitigated for interleave's case if we also merge #6779, for other cases it feels like the read / transfer over the wire improvements might outweigh the cost. Happy to hear your thoughts

[alamb]

Thank you @onursatici -- I hope to find time to review this PR this weekend or early next week

[alamb]

I (again) apologize for the delay in reviewing this PR. We are stretched quite thin as always

In general, I think this PR needs some tests to show it is working as well as ensure we don't break this functionality with some future PR.

Thank you for running the benchmarks. They seem promising and I will give them a more careful look if we proceed with this PR

[onursatici]

@alamb no worries and thank you for having a look. I added some tests now checking the deduplication and remapping behaviour, let me know whenever you have time if this looks good, happy holidays!