Change `ScalarValue::{List, LargeList, FixedSizedList}` to take specific types rather than `ArrayRef` #21918

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cargo check	2m 11s
build with wasm-pack	1m 53s
cargo test (mac)	30m 16s
Verify MSRV	6m 35s
Verify Vendored Code	50s
cargo test (win64)	40m 16s
cargo test doc (amd64)	9m 30s
cargo doc	3m 10s
cargo test hash collisions (amd64)	8m 18s
clippy	4m 7s
cargo test (amd64)	8m 24s
cargo test datafusion-cli (amd64)	2m 51s
cargo examples (amd64)	6m 56s
Run sqllogictest with Postgres runner	2m 59s
cargo test pyarrow (amd64)	2m 15s
verify benchmark results (amd64)	9m 59s
check configs.md is up-to-date	2m 10s
check Cargo.toml formatting	1m 24s
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