branch-3.0: [fix](drop sql) add force in the tosql for drop table and drop database #43227

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Cherry-picked from #43227

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run buildall

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TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40692 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit 4afee403877fc2e855d484eafdfc5c65a5fa0f18, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17581	7354	7320	7320
q2	2064	159	171	159
q3	10699	1051	1154	1051
q4	10537	751	706	706
q5	7714	2752	2771	2752
q6	232	142	146	142
q7	969	598	601	598
q8	9340	1889	1957	1889
q9	6574	6460	6427	6427
q10	7236	2337	2317	2317
q11	451	261	258	258
q12	407	211	212	211
q13	17785	2990	3008	2990
q14	242	212	203	203
q15	572	509	528	509
q16	652	598	599	598
q17	967	571	552	552
q18	7169	6643	6638	6638
q19	3384	1053	1045	1045
q20	484	198	211	198
q21	3852	3214	3142	3142
q22	1143	987	1003	987
Total cold run time: 110054 ms
Total hot run time: 40692 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7447	7338	7351	7338
q2	335	236	232	232
q3	3107	2998	3041	2998
q4	2101	1837	1835	1835
q5	6189	5911	5847	5847
q6	233	152	153	152
q7	2219	1771	1786	1771
q8	3311	3538	3440	3440
q9	8839	8852	8758	8758
q10	3557	3478	3468	3468
q11	604	502	497	497
q12	791	603	614	603
q13	16502	3088	3131	3088
q14	295	274	272	272
q15	565	533	515	515
q16	692	673	669	669
q17	1843	1663	1612	1612
q18	8248	7783	7641	7641
q19	3876	1578	1681	1578
q20	2122	1861	1810	1810
q21	5431	5134	5223	5134
q22	1136	1024	1036	1024
Total cold run time: 79443 ms
Total hot run time: 60282 ms

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TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 195053 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit 4afee403877fc2e855d484eafdfc5c65a5fa0f18, data reload: false

query1	1227	933	895	895
query2	6263	2050	2009	2009
query3	10804	3760	3794	3760
query4	71285	28238	23350	23350
query5	5461	442	430	430
query6	422	169	165	165
query7	5954	313	307	307
query8	309	224	223	223
query9	9330	2692	2640	2640
query10	502	269	251	251
query11	17889	15280	15632	15280
query12	161	102	105	102
query13	1569	425	428	425
query14	10370	7082	7018	7018
query15	222	185	189	185
query16	7300	513	512	512
query17	1296	580	580	580
query18	1868	330	311	311
query19	212	152	155	152
query20	117	109	112	109
query21	223	108	106	106
query22	4587	4600	4618	4600
query23	34753	33921	34208	33921
query24	5936	2943	2882	2882
query25	533	437	417	417
query26	676	169	162	162
query27	1758	291	303	291
query28	4547	2558	2565	2558
query29	700	479	455	455
query30	237	167	153	153
query31	1003	829	837	829
query32	61	54	55	54
query33	411	271	258	258
query34	903	500	499	499
query35	850	713	750	713
query36	1076	946	945	945
query37	120	65	71	65
query38	4125	4079	4020	4020
query39	1534	1468	1484	1468
query40	191	94	99	94
query41	47	45	46	45
query42	111	95	93	93
query43	499	499	484	484
query44	1156	799	781	781
query45	181	169	172	169
query46	1124	707	718	707
query47	1963	1978	1859	1859
query48	463	360	368	360
query49	717	369	379	369
query50	828	404	399	399
query51	7505	7225	6882	6882
query52	103	86	87	86
query53	257	178	183	178
query54	533	430	434	430
query55	74	77	73	73
query56	254	224	231	224
query57	1193	1095	1105	1095
query58	218	199	188	188
query59	2964	2837	2801	2801
query60	264	248	240	240
query61	99	99	95	95
query62	761	646	659	646
query63	208	189	175	175
query64	1730	626	608	608
query65	3234	3153	3208	3153
query66	698	296	313	296
query67	15833	15244	15326	15244
query68	4908	527	534	527
query69	428	251	253	251
query70	1146	1140	1125	1125
query71	405	251	251	251
query72	6475	3950	3847	3847
query73	781	351	335	335
query74	10191	8971	9095	8971
query75	3344	2617	2649	2617
query76	2521	1065	1122	1065
query77	512	265	260	260
query78	10764	9759	9645	9645
query79	7943	581	582	581
query80	1838	413	409	409
query81	551	239	235	235
query82	1298	115	115	115
query83	257	134	131	131
query84	292	71	78	71
query85	1854	290	299	290
query86	496	289	297	289
query87	4450	4259	4263	4259
query88	5314	2323	2373	2323
query89	553	285	283	283
query90	2152	181	180	180
query91	175	140	140	140
query92	62	46	46	46
query93	6506	532	520	520
query94	909	288	287	287
query95	349	249	243	243
query96	641	265	273	265
query97	3354	3122	3181	3122
query98	213	200	203	200
query99	1639	1296	1313	1296
Total cold run time: 342123 ms
Total hot run time: 195053 ms