kie-issues#667: fix cleanup and settingsXml handling

[jstastny-cz]

After #3009

apache/incubator-kie-issues#667

Fixing cleanup and settings.xml pipeline configuration to work correctly in ASF Jenkins.

• Deferred wipeout was causing issues when invoked in early stages
• Docker cleanup can't be done since the overall build is in docker container that uses the docker.sock from the host - it would attempt to erase itself.
• withSettingsXmlId shared library method does imply usage of a prohibited groovy method, thus replacing with explicit configFileProvider and passing as withSettingsXmlFile goes around that part of code.

Complete list:
apache/incubator-kie-kogito-pipelines#1113
apache/incubator-kie-kogito-runtimes#3272
apache/incubator-kie-kogito-apps#1909
apache/incubator-kie-kogito-examples#1820
apache/incubator-kie-drools#5572
#3010
apache/incubator-kie-optaplanner-quickstarts#613
apache/incubator-kie-kogito-docs#514
apache/incubator-kie-docs#4531
apache/incubator-kie-benchmarks#273

[kie-ci3]

PR job #1 was: UNSTABLE
Possible explanation: This should be test failures

Reproducer

build-chain build full_downstream -f 'https://raw.githubusercontent.com/${AUTHOR:apache}/incubator-kie-optaplanner/${BRANCH:main}/.ci/buildchain-config-pr-cdb.yaml' -o 'bc' -p apache/incubator-kie-optaplanner -u #3010 --skipParallelCheckout

NOTE: To install the build-chain tool, please refer to https://github.com/kiegroup/github-action-build-chain#local-execution

Please look here: https://ci-builds.apache.org/job/KIE/job/optaplanner/job/main/job/pullrequest_jobs/job/optaplanner-pr/job/PR-3010/1/display/redirect

Test results:

• PASSED: 5173
• FAILED: 1

Those are the test failures:

org.optaplanner.core.config.solver.SolverConfigMultiThreadedTest.solvingWithTooHighThreadCountFinishes

solvingWithTooHighThreadCountFinishes() timed out after 5 seconds