Feature/update parent pom

[chrisdutz]

Actually updated the parent pom, a lot of plugins and even more dependencies.
Also implemented workarounds for some of the dead-ends we had with the dependency and the shade plugins.

[chrisdutz]

Parent

apache parent: 33

Plugins:

• maven-invoker-plugin: 3.7.0
• maven-surefire-plugin: 3.5.0
• maven-failsafe-plugin: 3.5.0
• maven-shade-plugin: 3.6.0
• maven-site-plugin: 3.20.0
• maven-javadoc-plugin: 3.10.0
• maven-exec-plugin: 3.4.1
• maven-release-plugin: 3.1.1
• maven-dependency-plugin: 3.8.0
• groovy-maven-plugin: 2.1.1

Dependencies:

• antlr4: 4.12.2
• asertj: 3.26.3
• awaitility: 4.2.2
• byte-buddy: 1.15.1
• cmake: 3.30.2-b1
• commons-cli: 1.9.0
• commons-codec: 1.17.1
• commons-compress: 1.27.1
• commons-lang3: 3.17.0
• equalsverifier: 3.16.2
• google-java-format: 1.23.0
• groovy: 4.0.23
• hamcrest: 3.0
• jackson: 2.27.2
• junit.jupyter: 5.11.0
• logback: 1.5.8
• milo: 0.6.14
• mockito: 5.13.0
• netty: 4.1.113.Final
• opentest4j: 1.3.0
• slf4j: 2.0.16
• stax2-api: 4.2.2
• woddstox-core: 7.0.0