Add grpc 1.63.1

[bentekkie]

Patches are mostly the same as 1.62.1 just rebased. Added new rules_apple and google_benchmark dependencies

[bazel-io]

Hello @bazelbuild/bcr-maintainers, modules without existing maintainers (grpc) have been updated in this PR. Please review the changes.

[bentekkie]

I am seeing

[email protected] is using an unstable source url: `https://github.com/grpc/grpc/archive/refs/tags/v1.63.1.tar.gz`.
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  | You should use a release archive URL in the format of `https://github.com/<ORGANIZATION>/<REPO>/releases/download/<version>/<name>.tar.gz` to ensure the archive checksum stability.
  | See https://blog.bazel.build/2023/02/15/github-archive-checksum.html for more context.

But there is no archive like that available from grpc

[bentekkie]

Please add the presubmit-auto-run and skip-url-stability-check labels to the PR. Thanks!

[bentekkie]

Tests pass! Let me know what else is needed to get this submitted

[Wyverald]

Patches are mostly the same as 1.62.1 just rebased. Added new rules_apple and google_benchmark dependencies

have you incorporated the patches in 1.62.1.bcr.2 (see https://github.com/bazelbuild/bazel-central-registry/blob/main/modules/grpc/1.62.1.bcr.2/source.json)? or have they been upstreamed?

[bentekkie]

I incorporated all patches from 1.62.1 1.62.1.bcr.1 and 1.62.1.bcr.2. I combined all non MODULE.bazel patches into one patch file.

[bentekkie]

Let me double check

[bentekkie]

Verifed that all patches from 1.62.1, 1.62.1.bcr.1 and 1.62.1.bcr.2 have been brought forward or upstreamed.

I updated the presubmit test to run on mac and windows again (this was removed in 1.62.bcr.2)
@grpc//examples/protos/... only builds on ci on linux. For windows it seems that grpc is expecting a msys/mingw toolchain and for mac there are some missing _PyBytes_ objects for cython. Fixing these seems out of scope for importing the new grpc version as these breakages seem present for 1.62.1 aswell