feat(database): implement order-independent equality for Reverts #4433

Job	Run time
clippy	1m 21s
check no_std	33s
check	29s
check no_std kzg-rs	35s
check serde	29s
check std	26s
docs	1m 8s
fmt	15s
test stable --no-default-features	1m 6s
TyposCheck	5s
test stable	1m 0s
test stable --all-features	1m 18s
test beta --no-default-features	2m 7s
test beta	2m 1s
test beta --all-features	2m 11s
test nightly --no-default-features	2m 2s
test nightly	2m 2s
test nightly --all-features	2m 10s
	21m 18s

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