Adjust epi_slide_opt output naming; adjust epi_slide* autogrouping; fix tidyselect issue

[brookslogan]

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• Does half of Add .suffix (and .prefix?) arguments to slides #542.
• Resolves Make epi_slide_opt work with !!varname, maybe !!varnames, maybe !!!varnames #562

[brookslogan]

• resolve styler vs linter opinions on line length
• check whether naming overrides forwarded through _mean and _sum
• [-] add .prefix and .suffix naming features to base epi[x]_slide(?) --- but they are not the same feature... .prefix and .suffix for epi[x]_slide would be on the output columns, not on the input columns, and would not need to be glue syntax... might be confusing.
• Update NEWS.md
• [-] vignette updates?
  • Just did minimal changes to keep them running for now. Really should present epi_slide_{sum,mean} first, then the general version.
• auto-grouping&ungrouping by epikey, and ensure epi_slide also auto-ungroups if auto-grouping?
• Update epipredict to not break

[brookslogan]

@nmdefries sorry for all the noise here; I tried to implement just 1 time utility from #494 but forgot it actually relied on the concept of a "unit" time delta/step; fixed that up and added the unit time step helper. Think that's fixed now. Also fixed some CHECK issues.

The core changes, and now these helpers, should hopefully be ready now.