Improve installation instructions (backport #1490)

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🦟 Bug fix

Improves installation instructions in README

Summary

• Refer to https://brew.sh/ instead of duplicating the brew installation command.
• List cmake variables in a markdown table.
• Combine Ubuntu and macOS build-from-source instructions (85e5067)

Checklist

• Signed all commits for DCO
• Added tests
• Updated documentation (as needed)
• Updated migration guide (as needed)
• Consider updating Python bindings (if the library has them)
• codecheck passed (See contributing)
• All tests passed (See test coverage)
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This is an automatic backport of pull request #1490 done by [Mergify](https://mergify.com).

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