Update libraries for windows binary gems to openssl-3.3.1 and postgre… #620

Job	Run time
Build	4s
Test (windows, head, 16.0-1-windows-x64, 16)	2m 16s
Test (windows, 2.5, 9.4.26-1-windows-x64, 9.4)	6m 55s
Test (windows, mswin, 16.0-1-windows-x64, 16)	1m 40s
Test (ubuntu, head, 16)	1m 2s
Test (ubuntu, 3.2, 12)	1m 10s
Test (ubuntu, 20.04, 2.5, 9.3)	1m 37s
Test (ubuntu, truffleruby, 13)	2m 4s
Test (ubuntu, truffleruby-head, 16)	1m 43s
Test (macos, head, 16.0-1-osx, 16)	1m 11s
	19m 42s

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