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index.js

@@ -275,10 +275,10 @@ module.exports = class Hyperswarm extends EventEmitter {
 
     if (existing) {
       // If both connections are from the same peer,
-      // - pick the new one if the existing stream has sent and received bytes,
+      // - pick the new one if the existing stream is already established (has sent and received bytes),
       //   because the other client must have lost that connection and be reconnecting
       // - otherwise, pick the one thats expected to initiate in a tie break
-      const existingIsOutdated = existing.isEstablished()
+      const existingIsOutdated = existing.rawBytesRead > 0 && existing.rawBytesWritten > 0
       const expectedInitiator = b4a.compare(conn.publicKey, conn.remotePublicKey) > 0
       const keepNew = existingIsOutdated || (expectedInitiator === conn.isInitiator)