enhance: Accelerate the loading of collection

[bigsheeper]

1. Remove unnecessary ListIndex, DescribeCollection and LoadPartitions RPC calls during collection loading.
2. Remove unnecessary ListIndex and DescribeCollection RPC call during partition loading.

issue: #37166

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