depends: upgrade OpenSSL to 3.0.9

[tobtoht]

closes #8763

Overview of changes:

• Renamed ANDROID_NDK_HOME to ANDROID_NDK_ROOT. (openssl/openssl@99ffd5a)
• Removed no-heartbeats and no-ssl2: deprecated
• Building tests and apps fails on ARMv8 Android due to missing includes. Updated the sed command to exclude unneeded directories to work with build.info and added no-tests.
• OpenSSL 3.0.x writes libraries to $(host_prefix)/lib64 on x86_64-w64-mingw32, causes linking issue during unbound configure. Setting --libdir=$(host_prefix)/lib fixes the issue.
• unbound: checking for SHA384_Init in unbound configure fails on x86_64-apple-darwin11 with

configure:20740: checking for SHA384_Init
[...]
Undefined symbols for architecture x86_64:
  "_OPENSSL_ia32cap_P", referenced from:
      _sha512_block_data_order in libcrypto.a(libcrypto-lib-sha512-x86_64.o)
ld: symbol(s) not found for architecture x86_64
clang-10: error: linker command failed with exit code 1 (use -v to see invocation)

See: https://stackoverflow.com/a/28947978 and https://boringssl.googlesource.com/boringssl/+/517073cd4b/crypto/cpu-intel.c#69. We can work around the issue by skipping the check on x86_64_darwin.

[hyc]

Changes look sane, in a quick glance.

[tobtoht]

Updated to 3.0.9, which includes security fixes.

https://www.openssl.org/news/openssl-3.0-notes.html