[GR-18163] Add -Wl,-z,lazy to RbConfig::CONFIG['dldflags'] #4982

Job	Run time
ruby/spec on CRuby 3.0	3m 27s
build jvm	6m 30s
ruby/spec on CRuby 3.1	3m 36s
lint	14m 22s
ruby/spec on CRuby 3.2	2m 56s
build native	13m 18s
test integration	10m 26s
fast specs	2m 6s
specs :truffle	15m 57s
specs :language :core	12m 42s
specs :library :cext :security :command_line :tracepoint	9m 32s
test native	3m 21s
run MRI tests on native	15m 22s
	1h 53m 35s

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