Added non-atomic SPI connection

[YohDeadfall]

Here's my take on making non-atomic SPI connections, but it lacks tests as I don't understand how to properly make them without dealing with portals directly. If I'm not wrong there were tests using a client to issue requests to the server with the required extensions, so it should be like that then.

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What's the use case for non-atomic SPI?

[YohDeadfall]

It's used primarily if not only by language handlers which take that information from the current call. The problem I see is that the native API allows opting-in into non-atomic connections using SPI_connect_ext, but the provided implementation is less flexible, but more sound because with atomic connections no transaction control functions are allowed.