ddl(ticdc): support restoring add index statements with pre-split option

[tangenta]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11927

TiDB PR: pingcap/tidb#58408

What is changed and how it works?

• Upgrade TiDB & parser dependency.
• Add a test for special comment.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

No

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

No

Release note

None

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Timeline:

• 2024-12-23 09:38:46.791876602 +0000 UTC m=+1468116.880679141: ☑️ agreed by asddongmen.
• 2024-12-23 09:40:48.659187018 +0000 UTC m=+1468238.747989560: ☑️ agreed by 3AceShowHand.

[purelind]

/test cdc-integration-mysql-test

[purelind]

/test engine-integration-test

[tangenta]

/retest

[asddongmen]

/retest

[tangenta]

/retest

[GMHDBJD]

/retest

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Test name	Commit	Details	Required	Rerun command
pull-engine-integration-test	3555d4f	link	true	/test engine-integration-test

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