[Enhancement] count roaring bitmap memory usage in aggregator

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Why I'm doing:

What I'm doing:

1. introduce CountingAllocator to count memory usage for specific modules.
2. add an allocator in Aggregator to count heap memory usage of agg states.
3. introduce AggregateStateAllocator which is a STL-compitable Allocator. it will used by containers in different agg states to count memory. in this pr, I added it into distinct agg state to replace the original CountingAllocator

What type of PR is this:

• BugFix
• Feature
• Enhancement
• Refactor
• UT
• Doc
• Tool

Does this PR entail a change in behavior?

• Yes, this PR will result in a change in behavior.
• No, this PR will not result in a change in behavior.

If yes, please specify the type of change:

• Interface/UI changes: syntax, type conversion, expression evaluation, display information
• Parameter changes: default values, similar parameters but with different default values
• Policy changes: use new policy to replace old one, functionality automatically enabled
• Feature removed
• Miscellaneous: upgrade & downgrade compatibility, etc.

Checklist:

• I have added test cases for my bug fix or my new feature
• This pr needs user documentation (for new or modified features or behaviors)
  • I have added documentation for my new feature or new function
• This is a backport pr

Bugfix cherry-pick branch check:

• I have checked the version labels which the pr will be auto-backported to the target branch
  • 3.3
  • 3.2
  • 3.1
  • 3.0
  • 2.5

[github-actions]

[FE Incremental Coverage Report]

✅ pass : 0 / 0 (0%)

[github-actions]

[BE Incremental Coverage Report]

❌ fail : 88 / 150 (58.67%)

file detail

	path	covered_line	new_line	coverage	not_covered_line_detail
🔵	be/src/exec/aggregator.h	0	3	00.00%	[298, 302, 304]
🔵	be/src/runtime/memory/counting_allocator.h	13	42	30.95%	[50, 51, 52, 53, 56, 57, 58, 59, 61, 62, 63, 64, 66, 67, 68, 69, 72, 73, 74, 75, 78, 79, 80, 81, 84, 85, 86, 87, 90]
🔵	be/src/service/mem_hook.cpp	39	67	58.21%	[140, 141, 151, 176, 189, 190, 200, 212, 223, 241, 244, 245, 246, 260, 262, 263, 264, 286, 312, 314, 315, 316, 338, 340, 341, 342, 364, 378]
🔵	be/src/exprs/agg/distinct.h	17	19	89.47%	[57, 486]
🔵	be/src/exec/aggregator.cpp	12	12	100.00%	[]
🔵	be/src/exprs/agg/aggregate_state_allocator.h	7	7	100.00%	[]